And just how do I do that....

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There are things they never tell you beforehand when you adopt a child, things like:
When you need to get ids/social security numbers/file taxes they will want you to prove the child is yours. This is AFTER they have spent months making it impossible to do so. Oh, and a birth certificate - ya, you can't have one of those until after all the fall-de-rall AND it will take 6 weeks to 6 months. BUT! you need this birth certificate to get papers and or numbers that prove the child is yours...
Confused? Ya me too.
In other news, our taxes are filed. Oh, but we'll have to amend our return. Because they want a social security number for Carly.
Pin a rose on my nose.

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