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Probably the funniest conversation I've ever had with my son

went something like this:

Me to Josh: Come here!

Josh to me: Just a second, I am getting clean underwear.

Me: What?

Josh: I am getting some clean underwear.

Me: Why?

Josh: Because I want some clean underwear on.

Me: Why do you need clean underwear?

Josh: I just want clean underwear.

Me: {snickering, laughing out loud, chuckling}

Josh to me: I'm not coming over there if you're laughing at me!

Comments

Jamie Lyn said…
He is so funny!!!! Thats souds likes something Ethan would say except Ethan will tell u they stink or something just to chanage his pants.... So when are u getting here!
Anonymous said…
I'm assuming this represents a double jump in progress with him in this area - both to actually choose to wear under-roos, and extra credit for wanting them to be clean.
Sarah said…
lol the irony of the moment is certainly not lost on me :P

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